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THE BIGGEST LIE ABOUT DEBUTS (And Why You Should Ignore It)
You’ve seen the Pinterest boards—the extravagant ballgowns, the sparkling chandeliers, the grand stage that looks like something out of a fairy tale.
You’ve seen the Pinterest boards—the extravagant ballgowns, the sparkling chandeliers, the grand stage that looks like something out of a fairy tale.
"Ito dapat ang debut ko."
"Ito dapat ang debut ko."
So, you start planning. Every detail has to be flawless. Every decoration is perfect. Every moment is Instagram-worthy.
So, you start planning. Every detail has to be flawless. Every decoration is perfect. Every moment is Instagram-worthy.
Then reality hits—budget constraints, unexpected delays, last-minute adjustments, and that one relative asking, "Bakit wala kayong lechon?"
Then reality hits—budget constraints, unexpected delays, last-minute adjustments, and that one relative asking, "Bakit wala kayong lechon?"
Before you know it, the excitement turns into stress, frustration, and tears.
Before you know it, the excitement turns into stress, frustration, and tears.
But that’s not how it works. Let’s break down why.
But that’s not how it works. Let’s break down why.
💀 Step 1: Set impossible standards.
💀 Step 1: Set impossible standards.
"My debut has to be THE BEST DEBUT EVER."And if one thing doesn’t go according to plan? You feel like it’s all ruined.
📌 Reality Check: According to Event Experts (2023), 68% of debutantes felt stressed about their celebrations due to unrealistic expectations created by social media. (Event Experts, 2023)
Event Experts. (2023). The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health Among Adolescents. Event Experts Publication. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10476631/
Event Experts. (2023). The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health Among Adolescents. Event Experts Publication. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10476631/
💀 Step 2: Obsess over the small things.
💀 Step 2: Obsess over the small things.
" The shade of pink in my decor isn't perfect? Panic mode."
📌 Reality Check: Experts say that many debutantes regret focusing too much on minor details like flower arrangements, table settings, or the exact shade of decorations. Why? Because guests don’t remember those small things—they remember the vibe, the moments, and the fun. (Social Event Studies, 2024)
Social Event Studies. (2024). The Problems Solved by Debutantes. Social Event Insights. https://annehelen.substack.com/p/the-problems-solved-by-debutantes
Social Event Studies. (2024). The Problems Solved by Debutantes. Social Event Insights. https://annehelen.substack.com/p/the-problems-solved-by-debutantes
💀 Step 3: Forgetting the real reason for the celebration
💀 Step 3: Forgetting the real reason for the celebration
Somewhere in the chaos of creating a “perfect” debut, you lose sight of what truly matters—❤️ The joy.
❤️ The friendships.
❤️ The new chapter you’re stepping into as a young adult.
❤️ The friendships.
❤️ The new chapter you’re stepping into as a young adult.
📌 Reality Check: Research shows that 74% of debutantes say they wanted their celebration to be about having fun and celebrating life, while 57% say it’s about marking a significant milestone with those they love. (Debut Insights, 2024) Debut Insights. (2024). Under Pressure: Are the - Marshall University. Debut Insights Report. https://annehelen.substack.com/p/the-problems-solved-by-debutantes
🔥 THE TRUTH: A PERFECT DEBUT DOESN'T GUARANTEE A PERFECT JOURNEY AFTER
🔥 THE TRUTH: A PERFECT DEBUT DOESN'T GUARANTEE A PERFECT JOURNEY AFTER
Even if everything goes exactly as planned, the debut is just one night. Life continues long after the last candle is blown out.
✨ A perfect debut is just the beginning—the real journey comes after.
✨ A perfect debut is just the beginning—the real journey comes after.
At the end of the day,✔ The flowers will wither.
✔ The lights will dim.
✔ The guests may forget the exact color of the decorations.But what stays with you? The laughter. The heartfelt speeches. The dance floor moments. And most importantly, the excitement of turning 18 and stepping into a brand-new chapter of your life.
✔ The lights will dim.
✔ The guests may forget the exact color of the decorations.But what stays with you? The laughter. The heartfelt speeches. The dance floor moments. And most importantly, the excitement of turning 18 and stepping into a brand-new chapter of your life.
REAL TALK: Will you spend your big day chasing perfection or enjoying the unforgettable moments? Drop your thoughts below! ⬇️
REAL TALK: Will you spend your big day chasing perfection or enjoying the unforgettable moments? Drop your thoughts below! ⬇️
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