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THE BIGGEST LIE ABOUT WEDDINGS (And Why You Should Ignore It)"

You’ve seen the Pinterest boards. The jaw-dropping floral installations. The aesthetic table settings. The grand venue that looks like it came straight out of a movie.

"Ito dapat ang wedding ko!"

So you start planning. Every detail needs to be flawless. Every flower perfectly arranged. Every moment Instagram-worthy.

Then reality hits—budget constraints, unpredictable weather, delayed deliveries, and that one tita asking, "Bakit wala kayong lechon?"

And before you know it, the excitement turns into stress, frustration, and tears.

Kung gusto mong maging miserable sa sariling kasal, sundin mo lang ito:

💀 Step 1: Set impossible standards.

"My wedding must be THE BEST WEDDING EVER."At kung may isang maliit na bagay lang na hindi umayon sa plano? Feeling mo failure na agad.

📌 Reality Check:Ayon kay Weiss (2023), isang wedding expert mula sa Zola, 72% ng brides ang nagsabing sobrang na-stress sila sa pagpaplano ng kasal dahil sa unrealistic expectations na nakikita nila sa social media.
Weiss, E. (2023, June 14). The pressure of social media on wedding planning. Zola. https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-planning-social-media-stress

💀 Step 2: Obsess over the small things.

"The shade of beige on the table napkins isn’t what I expected? Panic mode."

📌 Reality Check: Ayon sa Zola's First Look Report 2024 (Weiss, 2024), maraming couples ang nagsisisi sa sobrang pagtuon sa maliliit na detalye tulad ng kulay ng décor, fonts, at estilo ng upuan, dahil hindi ito ang mga bagay na naaalala ng mga bisita pagkatapos ng kasal.
Weiss, E. (2024, February 10). The first look report 2024: What couples regret the most. Zola. https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-first-look-report-2024

💀 Step 3: Forget why you're getting married in the first place.

Somewhere in the chaos of chasing perfection, you lose sight of what really matters—❤️ The love.
❤️ The commitment.
❤️ The reason you’re standing there in the first place.

📌 Reality Check: Ayon sa Zola’s First Look Report 2024 (Weiss, 2024), 65% ng couples ang nagsabing nais nilang magkaroon ng kasal upang magkaroon ng masayang selebrasyon, habang 50% naman ang nagsabing nais nilang ipakita ang kanilang pagmamahal sa isa't isa.
Weiss, E. (2024, February 10). 2024 wedding trends: Data-driven insights into modern weddings. Zola. https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/2024-wedding-trends-zolas-first-look-report-data-deep-dive

🔥 THE TRUTH: A PERFECT WEDDING DOESN’T MEAN A PERFECT MARRIAGE.

At the end of the day,✔ The flowers will wilt.
✔ The décor will be packed away.
✔ The guests will forget what color the chairs were.But you? You’ll remember the feeling. The vows. The laughter. The moment you locked eyes and knew—this is it.

So, will you spend your big day chasing perfection or cherishing the moment?

Tag someone who needs to hear this! ⬇️

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